Life of a wife is like the colors of sky!
Saturday, September 24, 2016
Monday, August 15, 2016
What do you want to become in life?
To all those who have a younger sibling and love them like their own tiny tot.
I dedicate this post to my
"Younger sister"..
"Younger sister"..
Dear Sis! (choosing stream # it's just the beginning )
Eversince we discussed about what you want to do in your life, what you want to become, I was judging my life. I was thinking what advice should I give you so that you overcome the uncertainities I faced during my graduation and settlement.
The only answer I had was my question -" where do you see yourself after 10 years"?. It includes how do you imagine your life as? What kind of lifestyle do you prefer? As a teenager this must have been a very difficult question for you.
But still for all others who face the same thing answer it to yourself. Ask your elders about different professions, not how ideal they sound but the responsibilities they involve. At young age your interests can be varied.Some are good at academics, for such students its easy to clear competetive exams, some are average in academics but are good at sports and other cultural activities like dance,music,public speaking etc.If you think that you want pick a hobby as your life's goal,take some time to learn more in that field and judge wether how good you are at it?.In today's world of competition its important to be better than the average to be successful in any stream. Once you feel an instinct, hardwork is your best friend till you reach your goal! :-)
The only answer I had was my question -" where do you see yourself after 10 years"?. It includes how do you imagine your life as? What kind of lifestyle do you prefer? As a teenager this must have been a very difficult question for you.
But still for all others who face the same thing answer it to yourself. Ask your elders about different professions, not how ideal they sound but the responsibilities they involve. At young age your interests can be varied.Some are good at academics, for such students its easy to clear competetive exams, some are average in academics but are good at sports and other cultural activities like dance,music,public speaking etc.If you think that you want pick a hobby as your life's goal,take some time to learn more in that field and judge wether how good you are at it?.In today's world of competition its important to be better than the average to be successful in any stream. Once you feel an instinct, hardwork is your best friend till you reach your goal! :-)
Friday, August 5, 2016
Elder sister's Diary
As the time comes closer to bid a "Happy Journey" ... all I have to say is...
Go Sweetheart to fetch yOUR dreams, Coz u have enough love bt only the identity that u will earn it seems;
Don't worry about anything and fear nothing at all, U came from a strong woman and you are loved by One strongest of them all;
You learn from my failures, you earn from my mistakes, you have been through my battles nd know what are its stakes;
You lil angel, you are a pure soul, And this is the right time, go work hard achieve your goal;
Na not boring geeky thy life, balance it within and safely enjoy make the most of it nd not just survive,
Hurdles are found everywhere whether you remain here or go elsewhere, so chill it only makes you better, be strong, be happy that's all what matter;
Everything is good in the world just choose the right, and remember that there's a dawn after every night.
So my girl wish u all the best.. Trust me il take care of all the rest..
To my sista " Rajvi"...
Thursday, January 21, 2016
What do we do when situations get worse.. ( Job, relationship,place where you live etc)..
When situations get worse, we think the only solution or the only escape is to give up things around us like our relationship or job or place etc.
But
before you give up, think! may be changing your own attitude, understanding yourself and realizing that why should I give up my world, why not be in it but be stronger, braver and be more myself, what really I am ...
Our thinking and attitude makes everything around us. It is firstly important to give importance to one's own self, do what you like and whatever keeps you Happy.
No definition of Happiness says that you sacrifice happiness to be happy. Giving up things are easy ( may be not very easy). But, it gives you a false feeling of things being solved. Sometime later you my not get even what you had earlier. So think before giving up.
Another view is that it is even not suggested to keep bearing wrong or being abused by others. Once you are clear on your part that you are right or at least you gave your best. Think strongly, try to solve by changing your attitude, seek help from friends or family try every last resort that is possible.... And if still the problem persist: Go Ahead, Change your path.
But
before you give up, think! may be changing your own attitude, understanding yourself and realizing that why should I give up my world, why not be in it but be stronger, braver and be more myself, what really I am ...
Our thinking and attitude makes everything around us. It is firstly important to give importance to one's own self, do what you like and whatever keeps you Happy.
No definition of Happiness says that you sacrifice happiness to be happy. Giving up things are easy ( may be not very easy). But, it gives you a false feeling of things being solved. Sometime later you my not get even what you had earlier. So think before giving up.
Another view is that it is even not suggested to keep bearing wrong or being abused by others. Once you are clear on your part that you are right or at least you gave your best. Think strongly, try to solve by changing your attitude, seek help from friends or family try every last resort that is possible.... And if still the problem persist: Go Ahead, Change your path.
Wednesday, September 16, 2015
Modern or Traditional (Society)
There is actually no difference between a person having a modern or a traditional approach towards life. Rather every individual is a combination of both. Its just how much a person can carry easily.
It's a social stigma in the society that people boast upon their believes and curse others. Poverty and lack of education creates a ditch in society. Leading to groups of people which are not only divided by caste system but " Class System" ( the high class and the low class).
Everybody believes in God and Everybody believes in work.
It's a social stigma in the society that people boast upon their believes and curse others. Poverty and lack of education creates a ditch in society. Leading to groups of people which are not only divided by caste system but " Class System" ( the high class and the low class).
Everybody believes in God and Everybody believes in work.
Love or Lie
One can't love a person and then think of changing him or her according to oneself.
If you really love a person you will like him or her in his own original way.
If you really love a person you will like him or her in his own original way.
Tuesday, June 30, 2015
Think before giving advice
Think before giving advice to anyone
"There are 3 kinds of people in the world:
A) Sensible
B) Nonsense
C) Depressed
A) Sensible people
Such a person would definitely understand the value of your advice. Even if they are not able to change things immediately they will improve with time and dedication.
B) Nonsense people(Stubborn)
No matter how long you explain or how nicely u make efforts to make them understand they will not understand. Even if they make some changes it will only be temporary. They will rather do the same after sometime and find ways to hide there deeds by lies or excuses. Such people consider themselves smarter then you and misuse your wise nature.
C) Depressed people
A depressed person might be originally of any of the above category but due to over thinking or past incidences he/she transforms into a "No hopes, no loss" kind of person. Such a person has sympathy of everyone and is already overloaded with advices.
"There are 3 kinds of people in the world:
A) Sensible
B) Nonsense
C) Depressed
A) Sensible people
Such a person would definitely understand the value of your advice. Even if they are not able to change things immediately they will improve with time and dedication.
B) Nonsense people(Stubborn)
No matter how long you explain or how nicely u make efforts to make them understand they will not understand. Even if they make some changes it will only be temporary. They will rather do the same after sometime and find ways to hide there deeds by lies or excuses. Such people consider themselves smarter then you and misuse your wise nature.
C) Depressed people
A depressed person might be originally of any of the above category but due to over thinking or past incidences he/she transforms into a "No hopes, no loss" kind of person. Such a person has sympathy of everyone and is already overloaded with advices.
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